Marie: Hey, its Marie Forleo and you are watching MarieTV, the place to be if you want to create a business and life you desire. I got a question for you today: do you ever feel entirely overwhelmed and confused by social media? Most of us want to do a really great undertaking, we know it’s important, but with things changing so fast and with so many platforms, it gets a little confusing and we are only want to know to right course to do it.

If you are able to relate to this, you are in for the purposes of the a treat today because I have the world’s leading expert in social media here to help us out. Gary Vaynerchuk is a talented entrepreneur, video blogger, ego qualified social media expert and a better selling author. Recognise the importance of ecommerce in 1997, Gary launched winelibrary.com and helped develop his family business significantly from three million to 60 million by 2005. In the spring of 2009, Gary and his brother AJ launched VaynerMedia; a new spawn of agency that helps Fortune 500 corporations like GE, PepsiCo, Hasbro and the NY Jets find their social media voices and build their digital brands.

With over a million adherents on Twitter, Gary is recognized internationally as one of the top people every entrepreneur shall be guided by and a social media trailblazer. Gary, it is so awesome to have you on MarieTV.

Thank you so much for stimulating the time to do this. This is your new book, which by the way Jab Jab Jab Right Hook: How to Tell your Story in a Noisy Social World, I freaking adore this journal. I went through it when your crew sent it over and I was making notes; this is different than your other books, which I enjoy, Crush It and Thank You Economy, but this has 86 occurrence investigates, which is amazing.

Lets start off. What does Jab Jab Right Hook entail given this context? Gary: I decided to use the boxing metaphor because I envisage when people should be considered social media, and I’m talking about the whole world, I’m not talking about merely the people in the know, they think about it as is this real, does it have actual business value, it seems like there’s a lot of noise, it seems like people only hurling material at the wall and hoping it’s going to be okay; social media experts and gurus and mavens, 80% of them used to be real estate agents when the real estate boom was good.

It’s mucky, but for me, somebody who’s been in it for a very long time, it’s a real science. There’s a real reason that I’m sitting here with you. There’s a reason I’ve been able to sell a lot of wine.

There’s a reason the VaynerMedia has run from 20 to 300 employees in two years. There’s a reason I’m executing. I supposed at one point, “it’s a science, ” and then I was thinking about this notion of the information contained and why people are struggling with it. When I decided to write a journal, I decided to go with the boxing metaphor because I conceive when most people look at boxing, they look at it as like dudes punching one another in the look, but most philosophers or deep knowledgeable people of the athletic comparison it to chess; as a matter of fact, boxing is aware of the sweet science, and I’m a fan of boxing. I recognized social media reminded us of boxing; people think it’s this one thing, but it’s very detailed. Then’ poking punch poking right hooking’ is just what I do; give give dedicate and then ask.

When I wrote Thank You Economy, I noticed that the people that got it aren’t actually doing that well in business because they’re too romantic.

They’re actually crippled by ask questions the sale and then you have 99% of everybody else who’s only selling. They’re spamming on social and so if you’re always throwing right hookings, people duck; they know what’s coming. This is my formula. This is why I have success. I want to guilt people into buying my things. The behavior I do that is by rendering so much better upfront and then if you’re lucky enough to be wired the direction I am, which is you have no anticipation for people to deliver, you end up not fretting if your right hooking doesn’t country, you recognize that a good percentage of your right hookings do land, and it’s very different than my last-place got a couple of volumes because I also want to evolve and change and shape people like yourself who I’m happy that respect me not to start muting me out. This proves my detail. I wanted to throw a stake in the floor and announce, “I’m social media 301. ” Most of the books are 101, but I’m 301.

Marie: I adore that.

There’s so much of what the hell are you just said that I want to dive into a little more. First of all, I think it’s so genius because at first blush, you can be this person who’s telling it like it is and in their look and people could write off, perhaps your other volumes are so surface, but just like with boxing, how there’s so much more if you think a little bit. There’s so much more strategy underneath the in-your-face posture and the fun and the motivation and all that.

I think that is brilliant. Gary: I want to say something because I think in this gorgeous specifying it’s fun to be like’ let’s get emotional .’ That matters to me. I’m like a contradiction; I equally care what everybody “ve been thinking about” me and I could care less what anybody “ve been thinking about” me. I accept my bravado on stage in my public figure, but I have a lot of pride in that I’ve actually been able to execute, and this is that journal for me. Marie: I perfectly enjoy it.

I am so excited for everybody to get onto and we’ll keep talking about it the whole hour. The other thing I want to mention too, and I think this is the reason why I’ve been such a huge devotee of yours and followed you since back in the working day, is because I identify with so much of that. What we do here on MarieTV, people always ask me “how are you making money? ” We sell one big product a year but the rest of the time its like we give and we keep trying to kick up high levels of this.

It’s like how do we render more value, how do we make it more entertaining, and more goofy because that’s really me. I consider, similarly, sometimes people will write off and suppose “it’s just that silly girlfriend, she affliction, she’s from Jersey, she’s so inappropriate, ” but it’s like once they truly look a bit deeper, there’s a lot more. I was born in Edison and I know that’s where you had- Gary: At JFK.

My brother AJ was born at JFK Hospital.

Marie: Digging in, social media can be so overwhelming for folks; I hear that all the time. It can be overwhelming for ourselves and I’ll speak from experience too. We have a small team. What do you think are some of the big-hearted major missteps in the purposes of the Jab Jab Jab that we’re all inducing with social media? How are we get it incorrect? Gary: I wish everybody could be in my bench right now and understand how much goes into this, how many amazing people, and the structure, there’s a dude rolling material right now; real stuff going on. I think that is fascinating to me because you just said we do this and then we have this one big-hearted thing we sell.

You’re putting so much effort into your poking; this is your poking. You’re putting so much effort. Nobody throws efforts into their jabs. I do. It’s why I transmit people free material, it’s why I pick up the phone and call people and scare them, and the one thing people want is your time and struggle because everything else can be bought, but your caring can’t, your time can’t, those are the resources that matter.

The real answer is that everybody is so hungry to get to the right hook,’ buy my volume, buy my product, go to my discussion, and try my wine-coloured ‘; everybody’s putting effort into their right hooks.

99% of people are not putting any time or attempt into their jabs, so I think what they’re doing incorrect is they’re not jabbing. For example, in the context of this, there’s also what I call the DJing of the information contained. We have this interview, you guys right now should take this entire interview, figure out the seven best things I articulated, construct quote cards, put them out on Facebook with a link to the overall, and that piece of the information contained in Facebook with my face or us together and my mention will do better than if you merely use Facebook as distribution to awareness to that show.

Marie: Done. Louise is taking notes. This is actually happens now and that’s genius. Gary: Let me give you another one.

Take a couple of interesting thing and then transform it into an infographic and set that on Pinterest because infographics do really well there. Here’s another one. Take a funny instant where I do something silly, where reference is do that, take that instant, turn us dancing into an animated gif, post that on Tumblr and relate out because on Tumblr, animated gif is the lingo. I virtually call this Slang Marketing because that’s what it is.

In Pinterest, make it a little prettier and make it an infographic. On Tumblr, make it an animated gif with us dancing because it’s silly, it’s a younger demo with a connect out. On Facebook, my illustration, us together, mention card that really works. On Twitter, wait for something that’s trending that is able tied into the copy of something that happened here and then post about this instead of saying it’s time to post about Gary’s episode. People are not anticipating enough. This is all strategy. What are people doing incorrect? Everything.

It’s ugly out there. For somebody like me who has started very deep and has been doing it for a very long time and genuinely belief he’s good at it and my organization’s good at it, everything’s wrong.

Marie: I got to tell you, I don’t blow smoke up anyone’s ass. When I was speaking this, preparing for this interview, I was reading it literally twelve or one o’clock in the morning and I’m taking notes and I realized we care so much, we care more than anything, we will do everything; we’ll devote patrons fund, we’ll send them talents, anything possible to show that we are really care about people.

We do that because that’s how I am as a human being and that’s the only direction I want to operate. Gary: A funny thing happens when you care about other people; they start to care about you. Marie: When I was speaking this and I know how much we care and I know how much effort my squad puts in and we’re tiny, but everybody operates their asses off and I saw how many mistakes we were making- Gary: Because it’s not about caring; it’s why I wrote this.

Thank You Economy I wrote as a call to arms of if you don’t give a shit about people, you’re done.

Recognize we’re living in a small world now and everybody’s reputation and the word of mouth contents. I’ve watched people from afar looks just like you and your crew and everybody else who do care. It’s extremely hard but once you get over the mental hump, it’s very easy. You’re not making all these blunders because you guys don’t care; you’re making all these mistakes because it’s hard and nobody’s talking about the real details. It’s the talent of knowing what to do. I think you really hit a chord and that’s why I hopped in and said it mattered to be. I recognise people guess I’m successful because I’m funny on stage; are you guys out of your mind? Do I have to remind you that I built a $60 million business before I even started one occurrence of Wine Library? I requirement this volume for myself as much as anything else and I genuinely wanted to empower people.

This is utility.

This isn’t a rant; this is a textbook. Marie: I love it too. One of your aptitudes, which I feel, is just awesome your ability to offer constructive criticism to not comprise anything back, but at the same period, it’s incredibly respectful. I just think it’s amazing. Gary: Even when I said to Lil’ Wayne that he was the first person to turn Facebook into MySpace? Marie: It’s fucking funny.

It’s hilarious. That was a laugh out loud minute for me. Content versus context, which is a big theme in this journal. Gary: Everything thinks about content, what are they going to say; nobody’s paying attention to the context of the platform. I just ranted on that. Nobody’s sitting there and announcing, wait a time, animated gifs is currently working on Tumblr.

It’s bandwidth; you take one paint and you want to throw it on Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, Pinterest everybody envisions of social networks as distribution channels to bring you somewhere else; I think of them as places to natively tell stories.

Of course I have to respect the purposes of the Pinterest; is not simply do I have to understand and respect what works there, infographics and interesting thing of that nature, I have to respect who’s there, girls more than males at a certain demo. I likewise have to respect, and I didn’t do as good of a task get this level across in this book as I could have and I’m disappointed about it because I think it was close, is the psychology of why somebody’s on it. Why is the female on Pinterest at 8 PM at night? Why is she on Pinterest at all? Because the data demonstrates analytically, anecdotally, and what I spend time on, is she has the intent to buy something, you pin something you actually want to buy or the intent to aspire to buy that,’ one day I’m going to get this kitchen .’ What you’re put forward by so somebody from that mindset needs to be different than why she’s going through her phone on Facebook, which is to keep in touch with her world.

That takes a different story.

It’s all context. The style you and I are behaving right now compared to if we were at a seminar on a Saturday night at two in the morning in Las Vegas is different. The context of the chamber requires us to act different even though we still are ourselves. Those subtle things, what wittiness on Twitter that’s expected, that beautiful portrait or authentic paint on Instagram, you have to respect the context of the chamber in which you’re storytelling. Marie: That was such a huge thing for us because I know it for me.

You mentioned the word “bandwidth” and this was a big question I had for you because I know so many people in our audience, they could be a one woman or one guy store, they’re just getting started, they’re going crazy, they got the full time task still, they got kids run down, they may read this and proceed “holy shit! There’s all these platforms, he merely schooled me on all of them, I’m overwhelmed, ” and go like this and move “fuck it, I’m done before I even start.” Would you recommend someone running “You know what, I imagine I are actually tell my tale effectively, ” like for me for example.

I’m good on video.

This is a great medium for me this is why we focus a lot of our vitality there. Would you show someone pick one platform and get good and dominate it and then stack on top of it? Gary: A hell of a lot better than “shit, I’m not doing anything, ” so yes, if that’s the alternative. I’d likewise like to ask them to audit what the hell is do for a living or recreationally and try to find another 90 times that they’re spending on stupid shit and utilize it to have a second platform because this will actually employment. I truly wish I had a six-pack. I tactically can read anything to know what to do; I can eat most effective and I can do all crunch exercises.

The blueprint’s here but I don’t do it thus I don’t have it, so if you want to put your hands up and say “woe is me, ” that’s fine. I have nothing supposed to say to that.

All I can do is put out the blueprint and then the 1% that’s watching that is actually going to do it is going to send both of us an email in two years. I’m living this now; Crush It has similar things to it because it was a little more actionable, this report is also rant and activity. I get 50 emails a month saying, “My life is different. You changed my life, ” but meanwhile on Amazon, there’s a batch of negative evaluations because they didn’t want to do it. Cool. All I know how to do is to do and then I feel like if I do, then at least I have the respect or the authority to be able to talk about it and impart a chance for somebody to change it.

Marie: Absolutely.

You actually mentioned something else I wanted to ask you about, which I think your perspective on this topic is so refreshing when it is necessary to haters or criticism, either of that. I know you had a little short article and I don’t know if it was Inc or Forbes- Gary: Inc. Marie: Can you share because I think it’s so freaking useful. Gary: What you’re referring to, which I was going to get to, it’s the same basic principle, who the hell is “I actually respect my haters.” I truly , no bullshit, respect them because it’s how they experience. It takes me hour sometimes to dig into are they unhappy people, are there interesting thing going on, did I do something wrong by collision because I had never had that planned, but if somebody thinks you stink, that means you’re doing a bad occupation transmitting to them of what your value proposition is.

I respect my haters, the person or persons that don’t agree with are easies, when I suppose haters I intend people that are being rude or unkind to me, I respect it, I take it very seriously, I try to understand it and I evolve from it, I reach out to it.

90% are thrilled to have that dialogue, a lot of occasions they’re surprised that I’m even willing to go there because nobody has the time, the 10% that want to draw a line in the sand and dislike me, it bothers me but I try my best. I know how my mothers conjured me, I know what my aim are. I wrote a piece on Medium, which is an incredible blog platform that I think you should be seriously paying attention to Medium, there’s two ways to build the biggest built in city. One, you just build it; you construct the most significant construct. Two, you tear down all the other structures around you. We live in a very cynical world-wide where a lot of people do number two.

I take enormous dignity in number one.

I was one of the first video bloggers ever. I adoration sitting here knowing video bloggers have gone further from where I ran. That doesn’t attain me sad; that shapes me happy. I crave other people to win, as long as I win more. I’m competitive but that’s not me being on a the defence of everybody else. That’s not me articulating, “That’s not good”; that’s me being on the offense. That’s how I look at it. And you’re right. It’s stunning to me. I’m on an island on the above issues. I only don’t even interpret the other people that look at it this style. Maybe it’s a flaw, I feel a great deal about the facts of the case that maybe I’m rewarding the negative instead of the positive. I don’t know what it is but it jolts me away how singularly isolated I am. My peers are baffled by my effort towards this negativity.

Marie: I have to say when I speak the piece that “youve written”, it was a little short article and it was about respecting your haters, it was saying “if you actually listen to them and say’ “whats being” I do better’ and have a dialogue, ” I actually located it genuinely, actually refreshing.

We had an example on our blog of someone who was tired of hearing, our flagship program is called B-School, and she was like, “I’ve heard all these great things, but I likewise heard XYZ which were more on the negative side.” I recollect looking at that and I articulated, “Let me go in there and talk with her, and you’re right on this and you’re right on this and you’re right on this, but I also have to say you got to be balanced and look at XYZ.” She came back and she was so thankful and grateful. We heard her, we acknowledge where she was 100% remedy, but we also we were like we think you should see this other side as well, and then make a option based on what you feel is best; it was amazing.

Gary: I have incredible relationships in my life and they’re all determined in accordance with communication.

If you want to have a relationship with your audience, you have to communicate with them. That doesn’t mean that you get the video, we get to set it out and that’s that. Marie: I see one of my favorite parts of the book, obviously the case studies are unbelievably instructive, but I adore chapter nine about endeavor and I know it’s just three pages, but it feels like when I was speaking that, I’m listening to you talking immediately to me and it just got me so pumped up.

I know we talked a little bit about exertion before, but when it is necessary to even business in general, and let me ask you this, perhaps I’ll paint it in a different context, building VaynerMedia. What’s that like? You’ve never built a company with 300 people before. Gary: It’s interesting. It’s so weird and I can’t believe that you putting that behavior, that you’ve never built.

There’s a really great saying in football that I like and I’m a big Jets fan, as anybody who’s watching this knows me knows. I love the saying of “act like you’ve been there before.” It’s this whole notion that when you score touchdowns, a lot of people respect the person that just hands the ball to the ref instead of all the madnes that the modern athlete does.

Until you said that, I’m so insane in my own psyche of where I’m going that to sit and think that I’ve never done that before, it’s such a foregone conclusion in my brain that I don’t even think of it that way.

Marie: I can totally is quite clear that. If you look on that wall, do you ascertain “everything is figureoutable? ” That’s how I live my life. Any occasion we have an idea or I have an idea and I’m like I’ve never done that because everything I’ve done that’s cool I’ve never done before, so I feel like I’m wired the same.

But when I thought about having 300 employees, which is not inevitably where I want to go, but that was gaze, oh cool – Gary: That’s a whole other story for another period, which is that this is similar to maybe the hater exchange. The sum of people that actually want to build heavy human infrastructure is so low-spirited. I on the other hand urgently crave it. I adoration it. I would tell you that I’m the heads of state of HR and then the CEO. I invest ridiculous amounts of period by percentage on HR, we have one HR person who I would not call senior or ever done it before, so I’m very deeply involved in my employees lives, guess, anxieties, chiefly because I think it’s going to be a 1000 – or 5000 -person company, so I seem if I instill the heart and DNA into these 500 or 700, that gets me to 70,000 or 7,000 or whatever it terminates up being.

VaynerMedia is an evergreen company for me.

What I signify by that is I will never sell it. I might dilute some of percentages per of it, but I’ll never sell it. I need it to be a testing ground for all the other things I do for the rest of “peoples lives”, it’s a very emotional company for me that behavior. Marie: What I can feel from you as you’re saying that is I enjoy that vigor and everything in here, it’s like the perfect testing ground for you to continue to evolve and plainly I’m really thankful that you’re doing it because I have someone who’s leading service charges, who we can attaches importance to, and obviously we’re going to try and figure things out on our own.

I love knowing that you’re in the world because it makes a huge difference.

Gary: I appreciate it and it’s a funny thing for me to think about, which is “look at me, I’m so great, I was able to make this detailed book.” No shot if I didn’t have this company.”Thank You Economy is my life. It’s my north star, but Crush It, I was writing about what I was doing for Wine Library TV and Wine Library, which was pioneering this thing. That’s what I feel about this book, which is when I talk about here is likely to be mainstream. When I’m talking now and doing this interview, I’m looking at your crew, when I’m bringing up the Tumblr posts and I assure everybody like “that’s exactly right”; that’s how I felt about Crush It and that’s how I feel about this.

In the three of four years, seeing that same thing, everybody is going to understand that’s the game; I like that mood of being ahead of it. I have that thought with this.

Marie: I think it’s incredible. One more subject about your squad. Do you hire a lot of people through your connects on social media or people that are consistent with you? Gary: It happens. More so in the beginning , now we’re getting to such a level where those hires have been awesome and they’re the most household to me, but they’ve been hit and miss because people are so passionate to work with me and I’m such a softie that I want to give people that at bat and what you start learning is you don’t do the right thing by them.

The experience is worth it and the relationship with me is worthwhile and I always do the right thing, but we’ve definitely taken 30% out of the equation of the Gary factor to try to really be a little bit more critical to make sure we’re detecting the right vets.

Marie: Some of my best people that I love and I do deemed to be family, they’ve come through being a patron and been it’s been amazing, so I was just curious. Gary: Patron are totally different. Get customers that knew me or devotees or social, they have been great. When you come into the inside, I’m trying to be the best and so at some tier, what’s interesting is that doesn’t mean you have to be the best; it means that I have to be able to put you in a position to succeed.

I have to find a place with such structures of what I’m trying to do for you to be able to bring value.

Sometimes there’s not a perfect equal. Marie: Do you use your intestine a lot for those decisions? Gary: Only. Marie: Merely your gut.

Me too. Sometimes things look like on paper and there’s something inside that’s just going “no freaking way.” Gary: But the truth is my gut’s been incorrect. Marie: Like 30%? 50%? Couldn’t even say.

Gary: I don’t even should be considered it because I don’t care because it’s what I wanted to do at that moment. Perhaps 25% has been wrong. Employees is a crapshoot. It really is. With my wife, “its been” 100% so I guess I trust my intestine. Expending in Tumblr, the investment in Birchbox; that’s worked out. I’m all about intestines but I likewise don’t want to be like my gut is the greatest. It’s wrong. Yobango didn’t work out; I lost fund. Marie: Gary, this has been absolutely amazing.

If you want to market anything on social media, if you care about your the enterprises and about the person or persons that you serve and you want to do it right and you want to be leading edge and you want to connect with people in the best space, you have got to get your hands on this book.

Get it for your team, get it for anyone that works with you; it is that good. You know what we been in love do on MarieTV that we like to give people a challenge in specific comments to truly take everything we spoke and not just say those are great hypothesis, but taking any decision and do it.

Gary: This makes me so happy because for a lot of you that don’t know me, in 2006 when I started Wine Library Tv, I create at the conclusion of its appearance issues of the working day, which was really creating a real community.

I’ve spent four years reading every one of them so I’m all in on specific comments part. Here’s what I feel I want to do: when you get a chance to get the thesis, and there’s a free section on my website if you choose not to buy it, but once you get the thesis, set a link to your punch or your right hooking. Throw a connect and mention “this is my right hook” or “this is my jab” in the comments area and I promised that I was going to jump in and examination and take a look and I’ll reply to some of the comments and tell them if they’re doing a good job or not.

Give some suppose, try to figure out what you’re selling, what you’re trying to get across to the world, you might be trying to raise money, it’s not about selling something, whatever the objective is and then create a piece of content, it was possible to just transcript on Twitter if you’re not good and Photoshop or a person or persons shop, leave your link to it and if it was a punch or a right hook.

Marie: Thank you so much for building the time especially during the book launch and it declines today which is fantastic.

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